I mean these relatives keep passing comments and internal gaslighting , Its been a couple of years and the comments still don’t go away , Are they toxic and should I cut them off ?
For Example :
Person A has know i am losing hair for 2 years ,we met at a wedding , I was wearing a cap cuz you know, meets me
A: Hi, Remove your cap
Me: Why?
A: I have found some (bullshit snake oil ) medicine from a local guy , I’ll give one to you ?
Me:( Knows that he is losing his beard hair due to some Autoimmune condition.) I think you should try it on your beard first .
A: I am and you should too.
Their family keep passing small comments and miracle cure, what should I do with such insults.
PS: I have made peace with my hair loss and started treatment ,but These small comments ruin my day sometimes and my mental peace.